The Season for Ingrowns

Pop Quiz ladies!

What season is the most for experiencing ingrowns?

If you guessed summer, you selected the right months!

Why? Because it’s warm, we are more sweaty, there’s more friction, etc.

Are you picturing it now? Perfect. Because we are going to talk about what we should do about it!

First, recognize that prevention is key. Don’t wait to buy the aftercare until you already have ingrowns. Why wait until there’s a problem?

Second, if you do start to experience issue, reach out to your waxer! Let them know and let’s get you extra goodies or adjust your routine if needed. Don’t wait until your next appointment!

THE SOLUTIONS FOR INGROWNS —-> EXFOLIATE & HYDRATE

TIP #1 - Step up your Exfoliation Game

This means your CONSISTENCY (twice a week.)

Exfoliate in the direction of hair growth, not in circular or backwards motions.

If you need a little more, we will switch you to one scrubbie exfoliation and one mask exfoliation.

Do not exfoliate everyday, as it could make the situation worse.

TIP #2 - Step up your Hydration Game

Say it with me! DAILY! I will hydrate the area daily.

The right hydration will keep the pores clear and allow the hairs to break through the skin without getting trapped!

This area needs a product that is specific for the Brazilian/Bikini area. Not just anything will do.

What you exfoliate, you must hydrate. It takes these two in tandum to get the smooth, hairless skin back.

Let’s work together. Come experience the difference in 2024 with a Brazilian Wax Expert! See you soon!

Don’t forget to

Breathe. Let Go. Relax.

Zoey Jolley, LE

The Tea on First Time Waxing

You are probably so nervous and scared to be scheduled for your first Brazilian Wax. Here are my best tips to help you experience the best wax in 2024!

BOOK THE APPOINTMENT

First things first. You need to find an experienced waxer that is trusted in your community. Read the reviews, ask your friends or mom groups on social media.

GROW OUT THE HAIR

The length of hair really matters. The minimum growth is 2 weeks from shaving, but 3 or more is actually preferred. Do not trim before your appointment. If it’s needed, we will do it at your appointment.

BEFORE YOUR APPOINTMENT

EXFOLIATE * AVOID CAFFEINE * WEAR LOOSE CLOTHING

It’s best to exfoliate the area the morning of in the shower, avoid caffeine, and wear loose, comfortable clothing to your appointment.

DURING YOUR APPOINTMENT

Remember to try and breathe and relax as much as possible. We balance speed and comfort to help you feel at ease while removing all the hair.

AFTER YOUR APPOINTMENT

Schedule your next appointment 4 weeks out. That’s where the magic happen!

PS - AFTERCARE IS KEY

You’ll receive the aftercare instructions and we’ll hand pick the best products to make your experience exceptional!

Don’t forget to

Breathe. Let Go. Relax.

Zoey Jolley, LE

The #1 Reason Why Women Haven't Tried a Brazilian Wax

If you know me, you know that I LOVE offering Brazilian waxing. This service takes years to perfect a technique that flows for the waxer and is also most comfortable to the client. So, while I'm not a stranger from hearing from countless women (pretty much an everyday conversation) that they haven't tried this service, I am still always shocked.

There are many talking about the benefits of waxing, why they like it, and the actual experience. Think bloggers, social media influencers, spas and estheticians alike ... we are constantly sharing. So why haven't women tried a Brazilian Wax? The #1 reason is the Google Factor. 

What is the Google Factor? This is when a well meaning client (that could be you) turns to the trusty google and types in Brazilian wax into the search bar. What pops up? Remember that all of those sharing and talking about it online? The ones that come up are the articles about waxing horror stories. The worst of the worst. You were already anxious about the waxing part, but now you have your worst fears confirmed from some influencer you've never met on YouTube. 'She's right! It will be horrible. I can't do it.'

I have waxed hundreds of women over the years. The truth is you can do this! Out of the hundreds that I have waxed, I have had one (just ONE) woman tell me she thought that it was worse than she imagined. So the other 99.9% of women thought it was BETTER! AND, the #1 comment that I receive is that they wished that they would have come in sooner. 

Instead of reading and listening to the horror stories, pull up local waxers and read the reviews from clients that have received this service. Reach out to the estheticians in your area to ask your questions. Talk to girlfriends to see if they've ever done it and who they saw. Ask your beauty industry professionals as well.... guaranteed they know someone who they can refer you to!

The bad experiences don't have to be yours! If you are truly interested in trying a waxing treatment, my best advice is to just do it. While it may not be a pain free service, I'm here to make sure that you leave smiling and ready to try wax #2. 

Don't forget to 

Breathe. Let Go. Relax.

Zoey Jolley, LE

What I Wish I Had Known Before Brazilian Waxing

They say that hindsight is 20/20. I love the articles that share the how tos and what not to dos. For example, that insight from someone who has been to the vacation spot before is priceless. They'll tell you not to waste your money on this tourist place, but for sure put that restaurant on your list before you leave the area. Taking their advice can add so much to your trip.

With that in mind, I'd love to share my best tips! I have experienced intimate waxing from many estheticians. My motto is that I will never offer a service if I am unwilling to receive it. I receive brazilian waxing regularly (about every 5 weeks since I've been waxing for years.) From one waxer to someone who wants to try it, here are four of my top recommendations to have the best appointment for your first brazilian wax.

1 - It's not as bad as you think it will be

Our minds can conjure up some pretty crazy stories... especially after we watch a YouTuber share their experiences. I've been there too! The not knowing sometimes will create anxiety and worry. But the best news is that it isn't at bad as you think it will be. 

Going to an experienced waxer will make your experience awesome. She (or he) will make it comfortable for you by keeping you talking and walking you through the process step by step. Before you know it, your waxing will be over and you'll be getting dressed, checking out AND rescheduling your next appointment! The next time gets even easier! I've had so many women wonder why they waited so long to try it! 

2 - This is a judgement free zone

Every woman has insecurities about their body. Even after losing some weight a couple years ago, I still have a pooch, stretch marks, scars from babies and many more things that women worry about. I'm here to remove the wax quickly and in the most comfortable way possible. I wax women of all ages and sizes. Rest assured that this is a judgement free zone.

3 - Length of hair matters

Did you know that the length of the hair matters? It's important to have the hair be approximately 1/4 of an inch (or the length of a grain of rice.) If you are a shaver, it's best to have 3 weeks worth growth from your last shave. Put the razor aside so you don't accidentally forget in the shower.

Why does it need to be that long? The wax needs something to grab on to. If the longer part of the hair is under the skin, there will literally be a tug of war for the hair to come out. Simply put the shorter the hair ... the more painful your treatment.

4 - Purchase the after care

Your waxer is a  professional and will do the best that they can to remove the hair. Go to someone who specializes in Brazilian waxing. They will also recommend some products for your aftercare. 

Why should you purchase the post wax recommendations? The best way to keep and maintain excellent results is to prevent them from occurring. For example, ingrown hairs can happen to anyone. They are a normal part of waxing (and even shaving.) But if you are using product to prevent them before they even happen, you are one step ahead of the game. 

So now you know what I know! I hope this helps you as your prepare to come in to the treatment room and experience this service for yourself! After your wax, you'll be able to share your experience and pass on your wisdom to your girlfriends who have always wanted to try it out!

Don't forget to 

Breathe. Let Go. Relax.

Zoey Jolley, LE 

How to Make Your First Brazilian A Great Experience

If you've never had a Brazilian wax before, you may be scared of the unknown. There are so many women that have thought about doing an intimate wax, but never take the plunge. So let's discuss how to make your first wax the best possible experience for you. Here are the most common questions I hear and my responses.

General Questions

How do I find a waxer?

Most cosmetologists and estheticians are able to wax under state laws. Just because they can, doesn't mean that they do Brazilian waxing. You want to find an expert that does more than one a month. Just like if you were having a heart surgery... you want a professional that does them daily, not occasionally. The best way to find a waxer is through word of mouth. So get your girlfriends to talk!!!

Will it hurt?

Well, waxing is removing hairs and is at best, uncomfortable. So, yes. It's going to hurt a little bit. The good news: All of my first time clients say that it wasn't as bad as they thought they would be. By the time you are getting dressed, you are ready to schedule your next appointment and do it all over again in 4 weeks.

I'm a shaver and just don't know about this waxing thing. How long do I need to grow out my hair?

If you are a shaver, you will want to grow out the hair until it is about 1/4 inch long. How long is that? Think grain of rice length. Typically it is 2-3 weeks... but when in doubt, longer is better than shorter. Believe it or not, if it's too short, it will actually hurt more. There are many rewards for waxing such as thinner, finer hair making it much more manageable. 

Can I wax when I am on my period? Yikes.

The answer is yes. Just wear a tampon or cup and we'll work around the string or stem. You can be more sensitive around your cycle, so you may want to schedule at least 3 days before you start or 2 days after, but it definitely does not bother me. 

How long will I stay smooth? I would love to be hair free!

The longer you wax, the longer of period of time your skin will stay smooth and hair free. The first time you wax, we may not be able to get all of the hairs. This is normal and to be expected. You may also feel hair growing back in within a couple of days. These are hairs that weren't up out of the skin to be waxed when you came in for your appointment. The next appointments you can expect to have more hairs cycled through that can be removed so that you continue to go longer and longer hair free. 

What about ingrowns? I get ingrowns a lot with shaving. 

More good news here. Ingrowns are much more common with shaving than with waxing. I do everything possible to help you avoid them. Exfoliating is a great way to help prevent them and I offer 2 great solutions in the treatment room. The Supracor Spa Cell I recommend to everyone (trust me... this will be your new bestie for showering) and Ingrown Hair Buster for those prone to pesky ingrown hairs. 

Waxing Questions

What do I do to prepare for the wax?

The day of your wax, go ahead and take a nice warm (not hot) bath or shower and exfoliate the skin. This means to gently buff away the dead skin cells, which will help the hair follicle release easier. Avoid caffeine at least 3 hours prior to a wax as extra stimulates means you will feel the wax more. Wear clean cotton underwear to your appointment. Avoid caffeine and alcohol the day of your appointment. You could also opt to take a pain reliever.

What do I need to do during the appointment?

The most important thing to do is to breathe. From there, I will have you help hold and keep the skin as tight as possible. The tighter the pull, the less pain you will feel. 

How long will the wax take?

First time appointments generally take about 30 minutes. Your next appointments usually will take 20-25 minutes (depending on how much we are talking and not working - haha!)

Is there anything that I need to know for after my waxing appointment?

Schedule your next appointment before you leave the spa. You didn't do your first wax to have it be your only. Try at least one more wax 4 weeks later to see what a maintenance Brazilian wax feels like. Hard sweaty workouts and sexual activity should be avoided for at least 24 hours. Avoid tight clothing. You will also want to avoid tanning, hot tubs, and hot bathing/showering for at least 48 hours. Start using your Spa Cell one to two times a week after day 3. 

What if I have more questions?

That's what I'm here for! Ask away. I'm an open book and will be happy to answer for you.

Don't forget to Breathe. Let Go. Relax

Zoey Jolley, Licensed Esthetician